I miss my friends. My inner circle.
Angel o’ love
Soul Soeur

Booski, Angel o' love, Olaedo
Sapphire, Soul soeur, Cheech

I actually teared up watching Oluchi hug Rulani goodbye with both of them in tears on ANTM last week Thursday. I knew I missed real real sisterly hugs and talk. And you see these girls above? They know how to give and receive the best hugs. Especially Olaedo and Cheech and Soul Soeur and infact everyone!!! *tears* My mainest forever girls. I truly really miss you girls. Le sigh.

But God doesn’t leave us without a witness. Hehehehe. As Jesus would have it, I got a good dose of hugs yesterday. You see, two of my fave bloggers also live in Abuja and while I had met JMAD before, I was yet to meet Femmetotale. So we made plans to hook up on Sunday.

Food, Faith and Fun

I had a Sunday of my life yo!!! Aside them putting me on the spot as a ‘married girl’ (smh at you ladies), it was just an amazing time. We met up in JMAD’s house and she was such a dream host tho she knows how to harass. And we had another very delighful and abs beautiful drama-full babe Oma join us. Best part of it all was that are all absolutely Fabulous Christian ladies.


When you hang out with Christian ladies, you just come out feeling very Christian lol. 
Plus my JMAD is a hugger and a half and before long, I’ll get FT to the huggies club too. Plus we toasted to the most hilarious stuff. Twas almost a prayer session lol.


That said, it was abs awesome meeting y’all. Can’t wait for our next outdoor hangout. JMAD has this crazy idea which I’m kinda liking and buying so… Hehehehe. Thanks girls. Especially for the hugs… And Oma, we could totally be friends!!! Yup JMAD pass the message. Ok JMAD made me watch Nigerian Idols sponsored by Etisalat. Tacky. Tacky. Tacky, especially with all the ‘oil money’ lol. Sorry to say. I also decided to see the highly acclaimed 12years a slave. Look, I LOVE Lupita especially cos she has a very spirited spirit (whatever that means) plus she’s a delightful sport to interview (loved the Post-Oscars interview with Ellen)

The Post-Oscar interview. She has a laugh that is alive

Plus she gives the best speeches (Your dreams are valid). Obviously intelligent young woman. Plus she went to Yale. Hehehehe. So I said lemme see this Lupita movie ooo. 55mins into the movie, patience disappeared, goodluck wearing thin, and way TOO MUCH Chinwetel in EVERY scene, then Lupita shows up in the cotton field. Ugh!!! I’m sorry but I didn’t last 20mins after that. I don’t even know what to say so lemme just say I don’t like slaves/slavery movies. Same reason I didn’t last 15mins seeing Django Unchained. It was just too sad and unhappy. So I didn’t see more than 4 scenes that featured our idol Lupi (lol) before I turned it off. Sleep was even calling my name and initials while watching it. I’ll just chill till she stars in some romantic comedy that sees her throwing her very spirited laugh and energy around. I’m sure someone is wondering what I was expecting seeing the name is 12 years a slave… Well somehow I didn’t think start to finish would be clearly about class, caste, slavery, proletariats and bourgeoisies. Abeggi… So as I ranted on Twitter, some kind hearted sweerie tells me the message was that of hope. I suppose. But I think I prefer HOPE as portrayed in The Pursuit of Happyness, thank you. Btw I also didn’t see that movie till the end. Too teary. Lemme just stop this Slavery thing. I’m with that ‘white’ ‘celeb’ who says she studied enough slavery in history class than to be watching slaves biko nu. Romance, Comedy or best still Romantic Comedy ANYDAY yo!!!
Just to be clear, Lupi acted great in the movie. I hear especially at the end, it was brilliant!!! (Patience Lord). I’m just not into suffer head movies. Chinwetel suffered no be small. I guess I also learned TRUST in the movie. He trusted the strange people who now sold him into slavery. (I hope that’s what happened ooo). Anyways, now you know which kinda movies never to get E’ to watch. #JumpNpass
In all though, Sunday was a real amazing day. Thanks to everyone who made it awesome. Been meeting quite a few of my Abuja peeps who I had invited to church, some off my blog. How it was only Chi I managed to take a picture with beats me.

I hugged this babe so much she had to commend me lol

Anyhoos since some are becoming members, there’ll be more photo ops.
But life has had its fair share of downs though. Like I was gisting JMAD yesterday, peculiarly, I have WILLED myself to tears which have eluded me. Now no doubt, I’ve turned on the water works a bit but I realise they have been more about other people than me. Just listening to or reading someone share their challenges with me, I’m all teary eyed. Then when something hits me that’s personal, I just can’t cry for myself. Several times, and no kidding here, I have tried to cry just to ‘feel normal’ but no dice ooo. At those instances, I now hear God. Most times He just tells me OK what will the tears solve? Then instantly, He gives me a Word. At that instant, life becomes surreal!!! How a WORD assumes life and becomes real and breathing to one is inexplicable. I truly can’t explain but I feel an incredible blanket of loving from my Sugar Daddy. On my bb status, I have ‘E’… God’s biggest deal’ and I can say I understand that. I feel really really privileged.

E' Favoured and Blessed

The doors he opens, the people I meet, the responsibilities I have, the testimonies He gives, tz absolutely awesome. Cap it up with a Word for every single season!!! I truly have a Sugar Daddy.
Awesome feeling…
Ok lemme brush on the subject of ‘rehearsing on stage’ for a minute. First heard this term from my girl Ru. Basically,it just means (in the Faith that is) waiting for a problem to come upon you BEFORE you start praying about it. I mean, why don’t you just keep building on your faith even before the challenges come? I was in a theatre group back in UI. Imagine that we don’t do no rehearsals until the day of performance, we now come and start rehearsing on stage. What a flop!!! Tz the same way we flop when we have been all slack on our faith and then tz when the trouble comes that we start running helter skelter. Tz just wrong. The best time to prep for war is in time of peace. Simples. I’ll tell you my own ROS story. This year, I’m ashamed to say I’ve fallen ill 4/5 times starting right from Jan 1. Before then, I truly can’t recall when last I fell ill. So imagine sickness coming back to back. And guess what, they always came just before something major was about to happen. By the second time, shouldn’t I have gathered all my faith and scriptures on health and swallowed till even the devil go fear. Such that when he comes with his package, he takes it back cos he meets my shield of faith brandishing. No ooo. Tz when I start feeling the symptoms I start praying. That works somehow yup but sweethearts, Jesus didn’t die for that. Mehn, was sick last week and after I spent money I didn’t care to spend on drugs, I knew it was time to actively find, confess and overdose on the Word as per my health. Now health totally restored, I wake up each morning speaking over my body. I’m done mehn. Jesus didn’t die for this… He died that I may enjoy perfect health. Zezezeze. So FABers, in every area of your life, no rehearsal on stage please.
Almost the same way I feel about our Nigerian situation… Plenty rehearsals AFTER the show sef. The security situation is really something and truly, tz a case of God for us all. That’s why I recommend prayers especially esp from you and I. Face it, some of us have tied hands except to pray.


Not everyone will step out to protest and frankly, not every protest would yield much. But hey, we can labour in prayers. Pray for large doses of wisdom for our leaders and advisers. Pray for ‘Daniels come to judgment’ They know exactly what to do (cos you can see pure naivete sometimes) and they have the courage to do it. Pray for high level confusion in the enemies’ camp. Keep praying for the safety and rescue of the kidnapped school girls and indeed keep speaking peace to those highly volatile areas and infact every where in Nigeria. Pray for those still in the hospitals and those who have lost loved ones in all the numerous attacks all over Nigeria. Look sweetie, don’t just tweet it. Don’t just discus it at round tables and over lunch. Truly spare some of your prayer time for them. I saw this post by Ife and I was tripped.

Ife just has the best updates on SM sites walahi

I think we talk about praying more than we actually pray. Especially that wisdom prayer. And that’s all I’ll say on this matter before I say something really wrong.
Oh BTW, the second stanza of our Anthem is an incredible prayer. Feel free to pray it too.

I’ll just sign off with this…
So what is the price of a ring?
Sooo many things some ladies would give to land that ring and what some guys would do to have their ring accepted…
Some pay the right price, land the ring and enjoy the marriage of their dreams.
Some pay the absolutely wrong price, sometimes land a ring and end with a Boko haram and just live in hell…
At least if you don’t know the right price, you can learn…
Which is why this month’s LDM is tagged The Price of a Ring…

Love Dating and Marriage Seminar

This Sunday May 11, 2014
Right in Abuja, David’s Christian Centre.
Petrus hotel on Agatu street off Gimbiya street. Area 11, garki Abuja.
LDM is an acronym that stands for Love Dating and Marriage. Tz a once a month, actually 2nd Sunday of the month in Abuja DCC at 4.30pm so you can go to your church and join us in the evening. Tz always an incredible time. So you wanna mark your calendars if you are in Abuja.

Ok let me get some work done this beautiful Monday.
I thought I’ll blog some leadership tips I’m learning from DCC Abuja especially for my readers who are workers in Church and wanna do more for God. Awesome stuff. And tz amazing how leadership tips from the church can also work in our secular jobs too.
Some other time though…
May 11, 2014. Sunday 4.30pm.

Oh I almost forgot this. Just have to share it. So one of my mentees, an amazing amazing girl, Chinwe who looked plenty to me for inspiration and encouragement in school just graduated with a FIRST CLASS.

Congrats Chinwe love

Feels like my own personal victory. Just being such an inspiration to someone who now outshines you is incredible. Go girl!!! I’m sooo happy for you. Got me all teary eyed on Friday when her result was released. And she was the ONLY ONE!!! Whoop!!! She was just a year under me in Sociology and my, we did countless tutorials, she kept in touch even after I graduated, didn’t stop asking me questions and I’m just glad that the whole tension of waiting in prayers and praise to see how she’ll cross from a 2-1 to 1st class in final year will go (which was exactly same for me). It was really really a miracle.
Congrats girl. Work that first class babe… Whether tz for further studies or work, it opens doors. Of course that’s cos it is a gift straight from God. Whoop whoop. Mega happy for you. My mentoring wasn’t in vain. Hehehehe.
And on that final note, toodles…
Stay FAB darls…
Favoured and Blessed.
And Happy stepping into all things FAB this May.



32 Responses

  1. Congrats, congrats congrats Chinwe! Congrats!
    Hope to get one of this widely spoken of hugs frm u someday..
    #ok bye.

    Or before bye, Woah! Meet of the bloggers! Alicia I see you oh..

    1. Hehehehe
      Oh my
      I hope she doesn’t mind ooo seeing as she is semi-anon.
      Oh well when you hang with E’ anon is ovurrrrr
      And yes you will get the hug ooooo

  2. One thing I love about Eziaha are her HUGS. Kaiiiiii. They just encompass and comfort u and u can feel the true love and care that flows from them. I miss them and im not bothering myself looking for a substitute cos I wont find. So i just bask in the memories of the ones i hv been priviledged to receive. I miss u too Eziiiiiii. U r one in a million stars.
    The feast that took place wit dbloggers though…I envy much. Congrts Chinwe.

    1. 🙁 🙁 🙁
      I miss you booooooooo
      Looks like tz till camp meeting.
      And nne receiving hugs is also an art oooo. Hehehehe
      Oh yes hun twas a real feast Loooool.
      And yes, no substitutes. It was Rev TJ that told me that recently. 🙂 and I blushed

  3. Awww! I love me some healthy dose of E!
    Your posts always come across as ‘full of life’.. I read it with the same excited rush that I imagine you writing it with..
    You met JMAD and FT! Marvellous! I can’t wait for my own blog meet-up!! Oh, I should create my fantasy guest list lol
    Congratulations to Chinwe – FABulous! May God take you to greater heights..
    May God heal our land and bless our nation Nigeria in Jesus name.

    Sending you big big Hugs hun.. May God continue to bless and enrich you in Jesus name xx

    1. With excitement indeed love
      Your comments are just exciting
      Thank God you don’t hoard them
      Amen to your prayers and can’t wait to meet you hun
      Plenty loving

  4. I laff when I c dps that show let’s pray for naija,n the person hasn’t said a word of prayer for nigeria.(he prolly hopes hz dp n pm is enuf prayer).
    At the 2nd stanza of national anthem,datz wat we recite now as prayers during cds o(openin n closing prayer).
    N Eziaha lov,if u kno hw much I miss u ehn!
    Plenty gist too dey.

    1. I am telling you hun
      They think the DP prayer is enough.
      Them we have the guts to say prayers are not working.
      Oh yeah during NTSC they call it the National prayer
      So true
      Plenty gist abi… Choi!!!

  5. Sunday was really the highlight of my week or should I say month cos I don’t think I cld eva have this much fun xcept of course for JMAD’s plan. Eziaha it was really great meeting you and JMAD again! Yea, we’ve all met before y’all (u cld say in the spirit …..hehehehe)! You can’t blog like kindred spirits like we do xcept you’ve all met before. @ 1+The and Imperfectlyperfect, I feel like we’ve all met before. Most especially cos our minds work alike. God bless y’all.
    @E’ I’m definitely learning to be a huggie too and Ezar is perfectly right. Your hugs are very comforting. JMAD, I totally enjoyed ur sumptuous buffet! Can’t wait to do this again! 😀

    1. Heehhehehehe
      I know that feeling right… I certainly feel like I’ve met many of these bloggers live when tz only in the spirit.
      Lol at comforting hugs. 🙂 I try…
      I forgot to add that FT is such a gentle quiet girl. You almost feel like tz her alter ego that writes.
      Nne twas abs amazing meeting you and yup, we doing this again and again and again…

      1. You’re right FT and E, we probably have met before 🙂
        When I read you write that FT was quiet I was like huh?! Who writes her posts then? lol.. It’s amazing how passion brings out the fire in us!! God bless you ladies xx

      2. Yeah, I feel like FM is one of those calm quiet babes too from the pics.like one of those people that are like still waters when you are with them.almost nothing ruffles them up..

  6. Chai Nne, I miss u o, won’t lie. Yup u give d “bestest” hugs ever. Luvly post dearie. *squeezy hugs*

    1. :'( :'( :'(
      Can’t wait for Aki ki tan in June abeg
      Miss you too very plenty
      *recieving the hugs*

  7. Haha! E, let’s go watch a horror movie someday. I’m sure we’ll have lots of fun, hehe. Your pictures are beautiful…they add color to your blog. Keep repping the kingdom jare! 🙂

    1. Was it 4D or 5D that I went to experience one day… I screamed a headache to myself. I don’t have power for horror. Love, romance and comedy all za way biko.
      Oh I love pictures ooo. Incredibly. You can be sure they are here to stay.
      Btw, go and do your Sunshine Blogger award ooooo!!!

  8. You know, i hardly have hook-ups with ladies… please don’t blame me oh my engineering background didn’t help either but sunday was really fun. Amazingly you forgot to mention we all went to Feddy too. Yea Femmetotale is the alter ego of our dear calm lady lol. The thing about writing especially when the foundation is Christian makes everyone family…. just like you will read a post on Oneplustheone or Femme and feel like you are the one wh wrote it and it’s all cos of the Holy Spirit. In the words of Tuface One Love.

    1. Ndi Engineering
      Oh yes we are all Feddy Owerri products though I don’t recall any of them from school days.
      And yup tz one big happy FAM
      One love!!!!!

  9. Lol at anon is over when you hang with E.makes me remember one of your comments abi post where you said “you feel sorry 4ur friends sometimes what with their pics all over ur blog” lol

    I thought my comment didn’t show oh,just came back to see that it did now

    1. Walahi… But I think I’m better sha. I meet loads and loads of people these days who don’t show up here. But for my mainest girls, forgerrit!!!
      One of my inner circle is VERY private. But hey, what can she do? Lol

  10. Eziaha Nne, you know what i love about your posts…its so breezy but with so much depth…sounds contradictory right… you write alot of stuff all in one post and yet it all connects… he he i remember our BBM convo on sunday night about being quiet. Reading the comments now, it all adds up..yes o, you know the prayer for Nigeria that i wrote through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit and i posted on our Fab lane and on my facebook page and some other pages…one guy inboxed me on fb and said i should remove the prayer from his page ooo…can you imagine… i said to him what is he afraid of…na me write prayer, na me post am…in fact ehn…this life o…CHAI CHAI CHAI…diariz diariz diariz….i cant complete it ooo, tears don full my eye…
    Congratulations to Chinwe babayyyy, she is on the FIRST lane ooo…all things first for her…
    and your inner circle, beautiful, beautifuller, beautifullest ladies…kisses to y’all.
    meanwhyl, Nne ehn, please magnify your wedding ring biko…this your latest picture ehn…
    Ta…daaaa…all things bright and beautiful for us all FABers this May in JESUS CHRIST holy name, amen.

    CHUKWU Daalu Sir..

    1. Fey and her amazing comments
      I just grinned all through
      You already know how I feel about ya. God bless you and yours for me
      And yup, we need a bigger ring. Hehehe

  11. Eziaha thanks so much! May the good Lord continue to shower His blessings upon U. Thanks evri1 for the congratulatory comments.

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