Balance:A definition.

Has anyone ever told you to strike a balance with your life, especially when you are finding it hard holding it all together? Maybe you have also told yourself several times but maybe have not quite gotten a hold of this ELUSIVE but highly coveted BALANCED LIVING!!! Especially when everything on your plate is really […]

Dear Stay-At-Home Mom, Be Very Extra

NB: This post was originally authored by me and published on, an online lifestyle blogging site. Hmm, you have time o…” Those were her exact words on my Facebook post. You see, it was my 5th wedding anniversary and we had gone all out in our family photo shoot. I shared a bit about […]

E’s weekend banter… Do celeb endorsements REALLY work?

So after my last week post on Jollof rice, I had a few people tell me (including my cuz who is a male lol) that it is because I have not tasted very well made/their own jollof. Looool. Jollof is OK ooo but for me, not worth the buzz. That said, I am accepting offers […]


I love to observe my environment. Not just casually, but scientifically. Before, I used to be a participant-observer (read ‘get into arguments’). Then I got my fingers burnt some. So I flipped to non-participant observation.  And as a Social Scientist, it behoves on me to not just study and criticise but proffer solution as much […]

#AttitudeO’Gratitude… Day XAVIER

I sure am having a roll featuring all these super stars on my blog… Today though, as an advocate of gender equality, I welcome my friend and brother Chuka Xavier obi for the second time to my blog. This time though, he is sharing what he is grateful for… I love how he talks a […]

#AttitudeO’Gratitude… Day BOOSKI

******drumroll necessary******* My Booski is here today as my guest. So you think she is all crazy abi? This post will shock you. You will see another side of dumebi. The side of her that justifies her craziness. Oh but she still added some crazy moments to the post. .. I’ll let you enjoy Dumebi’s […]

Why I celebrate… #E'Birthday

Whoop whoop!!! Allow me to feel myself for a minute. It is my birthday tomorrow afterall. Went off BB for a while to attend to more important stuff. But I sneaked in on my birthday eve… Today… into so much loving… I SEE Y’all and I feel uber spessssssshial hehe… Ok on to today’s post… […]