I had rolled around a possible title for this Post. I had thought I would use ‘Out da Game’ but I just didn’t feel comfy using it again. No doubt, I was out da single ‘game’ but there had to be more to this Post jor.
Monday while talking to my one n only lover girl Sapphire about something else when she mentioned ‘Victory at last’ so I thought I would use that too. Indeed, this is a VICTORY!!! I had sorta settled into using that but Tuesday while doing the dishes and listening to Banky’s Yes or No which btw is one of my most fave love songs, the title dropped again in my Spirit… ‘My dreams… My Reality’
I loved this because it just tells me how blessed I am to have won this VICTORY and be out this Single game with God’s customized gift to me who makes My Dreams my Reality.
Ah!!! The BEST gift any woman can give herself is the GIFT of marrying well.
My husband is a TEN!!! My Shalom. My nothing missing Nothing broken. Aku m!!! My treasure. When I say ‘Victory at last’ I know what I am saying.
That Post ‘Dear diary…’ didn’t even scratch the surface. I dunno how I survived this. The devil fought this in incredible ways using the weapon of TRADITION. And sadly, some people let devil use ’em lol. The drama of inter-tribal marriages.
And Aku m, oh, he eagled-through it all. Like the REAL man that He is. I mean, I know and LOVE what I am doing today. No single trace or whiff of doubt. My PERFECT slice of heaven.
I am at PEACE with the man I am signing over my life to cos he has since signed his over to Christ and I have no doubt that dude is leading me all the way to heaven!!!
Just recalled that he once told me ‘You will make heaven just because of the
kinda love I will shower on you…’ Lol.
I believe him ooo. Cos dude loves me in the way God alone commanded men to love their wives. Perfect!!!
Lemme tell you what again makes today PERFECT!!!
I know there are a lot of totally comedic myths about marriage. Recall my post on ‘I am building ’em NO altars’. I know marriages are being made a JOKE of what with the divorces and separations wey full everywhere. Oh but I have better examples and mentors who have shown me that the marriage of my dreams is possible.
I won’t lie ooo. I wouldn’t have attended my own wedding if Rev wasn’t there. From the start to the end, my darling daddy and his ‘girlfriend’ have been counselling, loving, leading, spanking, praying with, etc in this relationship…
Who better to do this joining than the Very Rev Albert Femi Oduwole and he and his babe be coming all the way from Ibadan just for his darling daughter… Gosh I could cry
And my Pastors Kingsley and Mildred Okonkwo.
Lemme not lie ooo, I still didn’t think Pk would make my wedding. I mean I know I am a ‘ very correct daughter’ Pk’s ‘my darling’ ‘Ezy baby’ etc but PK no dey attend wedding like that ooo. So for PK to come, oh my!!! There was this 3 consecutive church days I had been outta church and then PK called me. Wanted to know how preps were going and check with me generally. Kept on saying ‘…don’t let em stress you ooo. You have to look good on that day ooo’
I cried ooo.
I called PK a couple of days before to remind him of the date ooo and he is like ‘remind ke, I didn’t forget ooo’
PK and PM even helped me get the Elevation church which we used cos my dad was about to whisk me off to an Anglican church to marry. Then my Rev Albert sealed the deal with Pastor Godman. I mean, my Pastors major rock!!!
And Rev Femi and PK enjoy the marriage of their dreams. Like fine wine, getting better as the years progress.
My Testimonies… My Prophecies
Life of mine!!! Blessed!!!
They are the ones joining me ooo. Praying me into this fabulous institution. Biko tell me how I won’t enjoy the marriage of my dreams!!!
See eh, me and una and this blog still dey here…
I wanna share the testimonies. I will share them here. Some of y’all need to tap into testimonies of provision for wedding.
I’ll be back… I have a wedding to attend after which I am off to the moon.
Which is why I wanted to wait till after the wedding to do my post on TEAM V… I wanted to write it as a #TeamV.Alumnus.
See you in two weeks…
Complete with pictures and all
Mrs. Eziaha Olojo.
Oh did I forget wedding details…
The Elevation Church
Lekki second round about. Marwa bus stop.
Reception follows at
Olumide Philips Hall. 18 Adebayo Doherty street, Lekki Phase One. Lagos.
This Post was written and scheduled on wednesday 27th Nov. I definitely didn’t put this together on my wedding day. All I did was attach the wedding pictures and publish
Gangsta bride yo!!!